AstroMaps
Before we get started in figuring out how to traverse the territory of your partner's energy, let's get a few basics down. The same way we covered the basics of swimming before we started to surf, in diving we need some basic principles to insure safety and a fulfilling experience.
In order to make it ok that you are going to put on the X-ray goggles to see one of your partners undergarments, we are going to ask you to recognize a few points:
1. Just like you, this person has strengths and challenges.
2. Developing both respect and a good sense of humor about their characteristics will go a long way in keeping your relationship healthy.
3. Learning about their qualities should help you to understand better what they are really like instead of you treating them like your internal version of what you expect from them or are projecting onto them.
4. If you try to use this information to manipulate them or make them feel bad, it will come back to you triple.
Ok, you get the point. Making a good map is as much about what you consider significant and want to know about as what they are actually like. They are the territory, you are the one traversing that territory. To understand how you fit together, we are going to start with a high level summary of both of your distribution of elements (fire, earth, air, water) and context (personal, interpersonal and transpersonal). [Come back soon for this feature].